How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 16.06.2025 18:45
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Ask yourself:
Hangs out with loser friends.
What legal actions can be taken if a neighbor's unleashed dog causes harm or injury?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
How do I overcome attachment issues?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
If gays can get married, why can't I marry my dog or a cheeseburger?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Making more friends is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
What is the best music album of all time?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How did Kate Mulgrew feel about Jeri Ryan joining the cast of Star Trek: Voyager?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Why is going on a date today so much different than it was when I was young?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
What I need from you?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
How does it feel to be in a marriage without any love?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
What is a good habit and what is bad one?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
That's it for today.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.